When I was 55, I took up horseback riding. My wife, Kelley, is a lifelong equestrian. I am not. Equestrians talk a lot about developing “feel” and connectedness with your horse. It’s not a motorcycle, where you kick start the engine, put the bike into gear, twist the throttle and go. It’s a living, breathing 1200 pound animal with feelings and experiences that you need to develop a relationship and understanding with. My wife had her horse and so a